Jeremy has been waiting for a puppy since we moved here. Michael got Rocky, the husky, but we decided that two new pups was going to be just too much. Wise choice, as Rocky has been a challenge at times (or always?). And Shadow (black lab mix) doesn't like him. Makes for some snarling, growling, knock-down drag-out fights between the two current dogs.
So we did our research, looked at photos, joined internet groups for certain breeds, and basically learned all that we could. Dreamed of the perfect farm dog, one who wouldn't chomp chickens without regard to their value to us, one who would trot along happily while we did the farm chores, one who instinctively knows what is supposed to happen and what is out of the ordinary, one who wouldn't run away but would recognize the boundaries of our farm.
Jeremy decided on a "farm collie". If you look at photos from the 1800's, almost every farm has at least one "farm collie" or Scotch collie. Just good, all-around, farm-and-family dogs who aren't over-bred and who are still in touch with the work they have done for centuries.
The official name of what we were looking for: English Shepherd.
Jeremy was content to wait (sometimes). The money sat in his bank account. Some days he said he wouldn't get a dog after all. Some days we talked about why we didn't want to have 3 dogs at once. And some days it was just accepted that "Dad won't let me get a puppy until one of the other dogs is gone." That would have been the sane thing to abide by.
Fast forward to a few weeks ago.
I had just been thinking "Rocky is 3 years old now. He's settled down quite a bit. If we were going to get another dog, now MIGHT be a good time". Followed quickly by "No way!" :)
And then Cimmarron English Shepherds posted a photo of a blonde cutie on facebook. I sent a message in reply, describing our little farm and our dog power-play and that our son also wanted a pup that would cuddle up with him every night. I didn't really wonder when I didn't get a response, because the first thing I'd said was "Price might be an issue". You say that to a breeder, and you don't expect to hear back.
The pup's name was "Cindy Lou".
Unknown to me, Elaine (owner of the pup's father) had been sick and didn't see my message until 3 days ago. She responded on Friday.
The owner of the puppy's mother (Tish of Blacksheep Homestead) was en route to New York, through Illinois, and had the little blonde pup with her, as well as a few other farm collie pups. Cindy was still available. She would be within 2 hours of us if we were still interested.
The can of worms was open. Sigh....
I debated, do we even take things further than just saying "No." That would have been the sensible thing to do. No..... No puppy messes, no potty training, no crate training, no sleepless nights, no chewed-up furniture legs, no additional fighting between dogs, no muddy paws.....
I mentioned things to Jeremy. His eyes lit up. He immediately said "Dad won't say it's OK, so I don't want to get my hopes up."
The breeder and her traveling friend were persistent. These are top breeders of English Shepherds who take great pride in placing the right pup in the right place in the right situation. They just knew that the little blonde pup would be perfect for us. I thought they might be right, but was not ready to jump at the chance without a lot of talking things through. And some people can be really good salesmen simply because they are "sold" on their own product. Hmmm..... But Elaine and Tish are well known in the English Shepherd world as quality breeders, and I have the internet groups and webpages to thank for that knowledge. I could trust their assessment, if we decided to do it.
So we talked, and Jeff didn't say no.
The breeders were willing to take as-yet unborn piglets from as-yet-to-be-bred American Guinea Hogs from an as-yet-to-be-brought-home guinea hog mate for Beatrice as part of the payment. They are trying to establish a diverse genetic pool in Oklahoma and Nebraska, since the guinea hog genetics there are all the same. Same names, pedigrees that look the same, heritage breed pigs with high percentage of inbreeding. In fact, Tish was bringing two piglets back from New York on this trip, so she and I had lots to talk about. But I made sure that they knew our potential piglets wouldn't be potentially available until at least a year from now.....potentially. They are OK with that. The trade will be fulfilled a year from now (potentially!) when we have our first litter of registered piglets. I would have much rather had it be a done-deal.
Back to puppies.
Tish was in Iowa on Saturday, stopping near Davenport. That gave us an evening to talk things through before our window of opportunity to meet her when she was in Illinois. Uncharacteristically, I was hesitant to jump into puppy-kisses and puppy-breath. It was all too sudden, it was all too crazy, it was right before I had to work like mad to get the house back in order after a very busy summer. (Dog hair rolling in clumps on every floor, dust on every surface, carpets to vacuum, bathrooms to deep clean, on and on....and that's not even mentioning the cow-pen to shovel out, the sheep-enclosure to finish building, the chicken house which still needs a perch installed, and on and on....)
A puppy on short notice seemed too insane, too what's-the-word.......impulsive.
Tish called before 7 on Sunday morning. The Sunday when my alarm didn't go off and I was late getting barn chores and feedings done. The day when we were supposed to start attending the new church for the first time. The Sunday when Jeremy's confirmation class was starting.
We had wanted Jeremy to wait and plan and anticipate. Now we had to make a quick decision. No going back once it was made. We had a short window of time to meet the Tish before she was too far east.
Could we handle a puppy right now? Made so much more sense to wait until summer, or to wait until we could fulfill the piglet part of the trade, or to wait until the schedule was less hectic (never gonna happen!)
(I said to Jeff, "I don't really understand why I'm hesitating when you've already said we can do it!")
We woke Jeremy up, and he sat straight up with a gleam in his eyes as I told him "We need to talk to you about that puppy. We could get her today."
He was downstairs in record time, assuring us of all the right things, how it would be paid for, how he would care for it, where the cage would go..... I am always impressed at the organized way his mind works through things, but this topped everything. :)
We did explain that this is not how we wanted to bring a new pup into the house, and that there should have been a bit longer lead-time instead of impulse-buying. Just to know that we'd done our parenting-duty.
So, Michael, Jeremy and I skipped church on the important date when we were supposed to join classes and officially attend someplace other than Immanuel Palatine. We piled in the car for a two-hour drive to meet somewhere by Joliet, as Tish drove through on her way to placing another pup in Ohio.
Jeremy could hardly sit still. He had a cat carrier ready. There were a couple of towels on the seat next to him. He had the money from the bank. He closed his eyes and listened to music on his headphones and let his longish hair stream in the breeeze, but I could see his knee and foot jostling with excitement.
We got to Joliet and found out that they were still over an hour west of us, so we started driving towards them. Stopped for lunch, tried to find a shady spot with grass (no luck), sat down to eat a burger while I watched anxiously out the window for a big white van.
What do you know, the van pulled in just a we settled down a bit, so of course we rushed back outside without eating.
There, in the arms of Tish, was the most beautiful puppy we'd ever seen. I forced myself to let Jeremy be the first one to touch her (not easy!) We moved to the shade and the shy little pup started to wag her tail. Jeremy crouched down by her and she moved in to get close. It was the absolutely perfect bonding moment, while Tish and I went over puppy-shot records, type of food, breeding notes on her mom and dad....
It was almost an hour later in sweltering heat when Tish needed to get on the road to finish the distance to Ohio before dark. Hugs all around, and then the puppy was officially Jeremy's.
We quickly decided that little "Cindy Lou" would not ride in the cat carrier, but on the towel next to Jeremy. She snuggled in and slept for 2 hours with her head on his knee. If I hadn't been driving, I would have been gazing at her the whole way home to Woodstock. She would open her big brown eyes and look at me, while scooting as close to Jeremy's side as she could get.
A good sign: We pulled into the driveway, and Jeff came out to greet us. He bent down and scratched little Cindy Lou under the chin. She wagged shyly and Jeff petted her some more. Not love at first sight, but a good welcome from the head of the household.
Little Cindy will probably end up with another name. We keep tossing suggestions out there, and Jeremy will need to pick the right one.
She is shy with Shadow and Rocky, but Rocky will be happy to know that this little pup already sees him as the dominant male. She whimpers when he walks out of the kitchen and wants to follow him down the stairs. He will be so pleased that someone finally recognizes his male-dog authority. :)
She trots around behind us and is curious but not overly bold.
She easily overcomes being intimidated by too many new things (walking into the barn to the deafening quacking and baaing and screeching noises all around.)
She took one look at the big black cat and burst out with puppy-barks. But after a few encounters, she walks calmly past, as Sly looks at her and wonders what to think.
And best of all? Jeremy adores her. He runs and she follows. He sits on the floor and she snuggles in. He takes her out of her crate and she is all over him.
She is perfect.
Laura